Most of us are familiar with the popular show The Office. It’s definitely one of my top favorite shows. I started watching The Office about 9 to 10 years ago. I wanted to see what the hype was all about, and just like most of America I fell in love with it and became … More Are you able to Share Your Thoughts and Feelings? (Divorce Diaries – Part 12)
Next month is going to be a busy month, and I’m already looking forward to July. I like to try to document my journey every Thursday, but it’s getting harder. There’s just so much to do. It’s been a busy month, and next month it will be busier. If only I was a minimalist, … More Trying Something New to aid in my Healing Process. (Divorce Diaries – Part 11)
Lately I’ve been trying to learn how to forgive myself. This is probably one of the hardest parts of my divorce journey and will most likely take the most time. I know that people say hindsight is 20/20. They always say you shouldn’t judge the person you were years ago. Hell, even I always … More Learning How to Forgive Myself for Ignoring the Red Flags. (Divorce Diaries – Part 10)
I think I entered a new phase of this journey a couple of weeks ago, and I’m not even sure what to call this phase. After I mentioned letting go in my last post, I thought I finally came into acceptance of a lot of things. I didn’t want to let go of the … More The Mental Floating Zone of Protection… Detaching. (Divorce Diaries – Part 9)
One thing that has always been hard for me is letting go. Not just letting go but letting go and jumping into the unknown. This is the most frightened that I have ever been in my life. Instead of just worrying about one or two things, I now have anxiety in every area of … More The Season of Letting Go (Divorce Diaries – Part 8)
It’s amazing how you go through multiple phases throughout the divorce journey. I feel like I’ve hit the no energy phase, or maybe it’s just a deeper form of depression. Extreme fatigue is a usual symptom of mine when I fall into depression, but I don’t know why it feels different this time. Maybe … More Trying to Find Energy when I Feel Completely Drained… (Divorce Diaries – Part 7)
If you have been looking for remote work in the last couple of years, I’m sure you might be familiar with all of these fake scamming job ads. You apply for a job and then get a suspicious email response. I remember getting one every now and then, but I’ve been getting a ton … More The Fraudulent Job Ads are Getting Out of Hand! (So Sick of Scammers!)
Being separated is one thing, but being separated under the same four walls is another story. There’s nothing more of a mind-fuck than seeing the shell of the person you once knew walk by you every day. There’s little to no speaking. Most days it’s a 1 to 5 words limit. One day it … More Separated but Living Under the Same Roof. The Silence is Deafening! (Divorce Diaries – Part 6)
I’ve been in my head a lot lately. Throughout this whole divorce process, I’ve been having a challenging time with the whole alimony thing. We didn’t have a prenup, but I’m still not asking for anything. People think I’m crazy and tell me that I should think about what I’ve been through. Even recently, … More Why I am Choosing the Harder Path and Not Asking for Alimony… (Divorce Diaries – Part 5)
Years ago, I used to watch How I Met Your Mother on a daily basis. I first discovered that show when the re-runs would come on during the hour between my other two shows. While I was waiting for the New Adventures of Old Christine to come on, I would watch How I Met … More I took a page out of Ted Mosby’s book (Divorce Diaries – Part 4)
