At the beginning of the year, I was listening to a podcast about goals for the new year. They asked everyone to share their one word that represented what they wanted to accomplish for 2026. It made me think what my one word would be. Which word would I choose? When I started to … More Three Words, One Year: What I’ve Conquered So Far
For the past few years, I’ve been walking around with this heavy feeling. Not just the usual heaviness that feels like fatigue, but the kind that also feels like a live wire. As a person who loves DC Comics and Marvel, I tend to use a lot of references from them, so I hope … More Sometimes You Just Have to SCREAM.
A couple of months ago I was randomly thinking about life being a maze, and how some people figure it out quickly, while others continue to go in circles. This could also be applied to love, but today, I’m going to be talking about the career path. One of the challenges in Squid Games was … More The Ultimate Squid Game of Life (Finding the Right Door Before the Clock Runs Out)
It’s been a few months since I’ve posted an update, so let’s just jump right into it. Well… I’m officially divorced now. I’ve been divorced for a couple of months. The process was pretty quick and would’ve been quicker if it wasn’t for the weather delays. It’s pretty easy when you have no children … More Signing the Papers… (Divorce Diaries Part 24)
The first month of the New Year has been filled with an array of emotions. The first few days felt different. It felt like an atmosphere shift, like calmness in the air. My sister felt it as well. There was just something different about it, but days went by and I started to feel … More Distance from the Moment, the Worst Parts Come into Focus. (Divorce Diaries part 23)
Five years ago, I uploaded a short post about going into a trial-and-error period. It was a time when I wanted to try a lot of things and figure out what works and what doesn’t. I wanted to know what works best for me and finally get a better idea of my path, so … More Going into another Trial-and-Error season.
Feeling two things at once is an interesting feeling. You go from wanting to keep your distance but wanting to make sure that they’re taking care of themselves. You go from feeling a sense of hostility, to worrying about them. The love doesn’t stop just because you’re feeling resentful, frustrated, or upset, and I … More Feeling Two Things at Once (Divorce Diaries – Part 18)
It’s been a rough start since I officially moved out of my home. I knew that I would miss my place and what I’ve grown accustomed to over the years, but it was even the little things that I didn’t think about that made the transition harder. My soon-to-be ex-husband moved out a little … More Adjusting to my New Surroundings After the Move. ( Divorce Diaries – Part 16)
Lately I’ve been trying to learn how to forgive myself. This is probably one of the hardest parts of my divorce journey and will most likely take the most time. I know that people say hindsight is 20/20. They always say you shouldn’t judge the person you were years ago. Hell, even I always … More Learning How to Forgive Myself for Ignoring the Red Flags. (Divorce Diaries – Part 10)
Can I be completely honest for a second? It is hard, like really hard. It’s tough to confront your own insecurities that come forward in the midst of a divorce. The feelings of feeling broken, inadequate, unlovable and replaceable. It’s like you don’t want to give people a certain power, but when you love … More What Are You Fighting for, Caroline? (Divorce Diaries – Part 3)
